Online Dating Stories

Way back 1997, when I was still in Manila, I was fortunate enough to have attended PSI Advance (http://www.psiseminars.com/). It was during that time that I was introduced to the Law of Attraction. I learned more about it and was inspired by it. Ever since then, things started to gradually fall into place. My first major manifestation came, 6 months later, when I finally got to move to the City of Dreams, New York.

It was in New York that I became more in touch with my spirituality. I was an Asian soul still learning to adapt to the Western psyche. I had bouts of homesickness and moments of frustration. After a while, I found myself yearning for much-needed company and the elusive true love. There were a number of online dates at Loveawake dating site, but not as steady as it had been when I was back in my homeland. During those times, I always made sure to refocus my energies on my goals.

After a while, I moved to Chicago. I indulged myself in books on relationships and love. I attended seminars by Kathryn Alice, Ariel Ford and Abraham Hicks among others. I reminded myself about the Law of Attraction and it was then that I was able to experience more manifestations in my life. As for my quest for true love, I started making use of the Vision Board. Never did I think that this tool would be such a powerful mover in my life. Without expectations, I put together my Vision Board, starting out with a photo of a couple kissing in the rain. I then added the elements that I deemed important in any relationship: Honesty, Trust, Commitment and Happiness. Being a travel enthusiast, I also included this phrase: Going global. Two tickets… one trip.

A Vision Board is actually fun yet difficult (for some) to do. You can be as creative as you want. Doing it with someone else helps a lot, too. Remember, do not miss out on the whole point of the tool – this is you in the future – a concrete version of your life plans and how you can achieve them. As you work on your Vision Board, you are also working on your emotions and your mind, preparing yourself to have the right disposition to manifest.

Amidst the partying and my passing life, my Vision Board was kept hidden inside my closet. I always get to see it when dressing up for my day. I did not worry about it too much, but rather, I surrendered myself to the idea that one day, it will come. Finally, in my 40s, Domingo came around. Yes, he is the love of my life – my soulmate. On our first year together, we went on a total of ten trips. On two occasions, we enjoyed the beaches of foreign countries. It was just as I had envisioned it to be. And that was just the cherry on top, because what was more important was that the relationship elements I wanted were all there.

I feel it is my duty to help others be happy, too. So, I am sharing my story and how it shows the Law of Attraction and the Vision Board working for love.

​It is perhaps the oldest and most universal question – how can I find true love? In terms of love and dating, that’s the ultimate goal that most people from Kemerovo want to be able to reach is to be able to find a soul mate in Kemerovo that will share a meaningful and long-lasting relationship with them.

 Whenever you ask yourself, “How can I find true love?”, the first question that you need to answer is what kind of qualities you are looking for in your partner. Most Kemerovo people have an idea of their “dream partner” already in their mind, but if you go through life looking for a person that will perfectly fit your idea of the perfect lover, you will be doomed to disappointment. No one is perfect, and in love, you will find someone whose imperfections and flaws you will learn to accept as part of that person, and still be able to love them for it.

Some people in Kemerovo think that when it comes to romance, women are more inclined towards the idea of true love than men are. However, most guys will have most likely asked themselves the same question – how can I find true love? A lot of Kemerovo guys will go to great length to find a girlfriend, and some of them aren’t afraid to show their sensitive side, even if it would be a cause of ridicule from other men.

The most important thing when it comes to love is being able to value your partner as much as you value yourself. A relationship that does have equality between the people involved is not healthy, and will most likely result in two people being miserable with each other. If you want to be able to value your partner, you should know exactly what your Kemerovo partner can bring into the relationship, as well as know your own strengths and shortcomings.

If you want to find true love in Kemerovo, you should stop looking for people who are only looking for a “good time”, and start focusing on the people that you know will offer things that you are looking for in a partner. For example, if you want a relationship that is full of laughter, look for a partner with a sense of humor and a sharp wit, one that makes you smile and laugh when you are together.

Lastly, if you want to find a soul mate, don’t rush the process! Remember, good things come to those who wait, and if you’re patient, the universe just might reward you.